Don't Sweat the Small Stuff!

Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff!

While scrolling through social media or going through my every day life, I often see and hear people complain about even the smallest things in life.  In fact, some people have a knack for literally make a “mountain out of a mole hill.”  The truth is, no matter where you are in your life, you will always be presented with an opportunity to complain.  Your true growth comes when you choose to see the good in situations rather than always highlight the bad. 

With our jobs and careers, we complain about pay, having to work too many hours, or not getting enough hours.  We complain if we feel management or  our colleagues don't like us. 

Men complain that their women don’t “sex” them enough, but also say that she’s too needy, clingy, or requires too much attention.  Women complain that their men aren't considerate with time, but find fault when he doesn't work the extra hours of overtime, resulting in financial hardships for the household. Singles complain about the dating game.  Married couples complain about being married.  Parents complain about their kids and kids complain about their parents.  

The weather is never right.  The heat is too hot and the cold is too frigid.  The list goes on and on… And while some of the complaints are valid, often times they are completely UNNECESSARY! 

I am a solution driven person.  If you don’t like it, fix it.  If you can’t fix it, learn to like it or at least DEAL with it.  You can’t change everything that you dislike.  Life is about choosing your battles, and I promise at some point in your life, you will wake up and realize that those little things that you spent so much time whining about were ultimately insignificant.

Why waste time arguing and fussing about things that won’t matter on tomorrow?  

Let me be clear, I am not suggesting that you should allow anyone to mistreat you or take advantage of you.  I’m simply saying is: FIGHT WHEN IT MATTERS and if everything has to be a fight, then maybe the problem is YOU!   

So today, make a decision that you won’t SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF and watch fulfillment come to you.

My name is Tiffany LaMeia and I am dedicated to becoming a better me, encouraging you to be a better you, and helping you to understand that you are #ENOUGH!  -Have a Prosperous Day!