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Can you cover me?

Can you cover me?

In a world where relationship goals consist of having some one to "Netflix and Chill," I understand why men are confused about what women want and why women are afraid to tell a man what she wants.

Men, your average woman of substance, seeking to be a wife, is not as concerned with how well you are in bed; she's focused on what's going on in your head.  While she might commit to sex in an effort to satisfy you, she really wants more.  

She wants to know that you care and are concerned with the things that concern her.  She wants to know that in a world that is cold and cruel that you will be her safe place and her protector.  

Many men have pursued me in vein thinking what I wanted was fame, finances, and fun times, when all I really need is to be covered!

Yes!  That's it!  Can you cover me with your prayers and your support? Can you cover me with your heart and care for me as if I am the most valuable person in your world? Can you protect me by making sure I never have to worry about another woman feeling as if she is more important to you than I am? Can you recruit me as your partner for life understanding that our union is the most important bond that exist? Can you love me enough to gently tell me baby, I don't think that's a good idea? Do you have the ability to help me navigate through life and push me to be the best woman possible, without feeling intimidated? 

Can I trust that if I give you my heart you won't make a fool of me? Can I trust that you will cover my daughter as if you're her father without secretly uncovering her? Can you care about every intricate detail of my life and not ignore the things I tell you, but take them to heart? 

Can you cover me?   

Just as the body covers the rib, understand that the man should be the woman's covering. When you protect her and cover her, she then covers your heart.  


Her love for you will be a gift that keeps on giving.  So dear man, in your pursuit of her, please understand she simply wants to be protected and covered. 

My name is Tiffany LaMeia and I am dedicated to becoming a better me, encouraging you to be a better you, and helping you to understand that you are #ENOUGH!

-Have a Prosperous Day!

Comments

  1. UnknownApril 4, 2018 at 4:07 PM

    Thank you Tiffany, God Bless you tremendously!! I have discovered the best part in me!

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    1. Tiffany LaMeiaApril 4, 2018 at 7:08 PM

      Thank you for the feedback! That's something to be proud of! God bless you!

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